People seek out hypnosis, therapy, and coaching for different reasons.
However, none of these approaches is practiced in just one way.
This comparison is meant to help you consider how the approach I’ve developed differs and what kind of support might be right for you.
Let’s start off with the word hypnosis.
Here, I’m using the word hypnosis to mean unconscious change.
By unconscious change, I mean shifts in how you think, feel, and behave that naturally become your new normal.
The focus of this work is on transformation: meaningful change you can recognize, whether that’s a noticeable reduction in symptoms or a problem resolving altogether.
This approach aims to help you shift a specific issue in a short period of time.
The issues I work with are everyday problems that often involve feeling blocked, stuck, or held back.
This can manifest as self-doubt, fear and worry, a lack of confidence, overthinking, and relationship issues.
The aim is to help you uncover and shift what’s getting in the way.
This doesn’t involve giving you advice, offering strategies, or providing my perspective.
Unconscious change is about making your own connections and coming to your own conclusions—a deeper understanding that no one else has to convince you of.
When Each Approach Could Help
A therapist may be a better fit if you’re looking for an outside perspective or support as you navigate a difficult situation.
Take someone going through a difficult divorce.
Therapy might make more sense if they’re looking for help processing the loss and guidance on how to adjust to the changes in their life.
The work I offer can be helpful when the divorce is stirring up old patterns—limiting beliefs or strong emotions that may be preventing them from moving forward.
Sometimes there are just difficult things people have to experience in life: a serious illness, the death of a loved one, or an unexpected life transition.
Feeling angry, sad, or fearful about these situations doesn’t necessarily mean there’s an unconscious block to be resolved.
In these situations, support from a therapist would probably be more helpful.
There are also some issues that may never fully go away and need to be managed.
Or maybe you’re looking to talk through and analyze an issue rather than focus on shifting how you feel.
In either case, therapy would probably be a better fit.
Another example is performance anxiety.
This work can help someone shift the fear that’s disrupting their ability to speak with confidence and ease in front of a group.
A public speaking coach would be helpful if they want to build their skills as a public speaker.
This work isn’t about telling you what to think, how to feel, or how to act.
It’s about freeing up space and removing inner blocks, so it becomes easier to think, feel, and act the way you’d like to.
When This Work Could Be a Good Fit
This work is for anyone who knows what they’re capable of or remembers how they once were, and wants to take action, but they…
Feel held back.
Experience internal friction.
Find themselves making excuses.
Notice strong feelings or thoughts getting in their way.
Reality remains reality.
Stressful situations can still be stressful.
But the stories you tell yourself that don’t serve you, the strong emotions stirred up by what you imagine might happen, and the ways you get in your own way even when you know you don’t need to—these are the things we can address.
Therapy can offer support, perspective, a theoretical understanding of what you’re experiencing, practical strategies, and space to analyze an issue.
Coaching can help you clarify what to do, make a plan, stay accountable, and follow through.
This work focuses on unconscious change: recognizable internal shifts, clarity, insight, and the resolution of old patterns.
A Quick Comparison
| Approach | Main focus | May be a fit if you’re looking for… |
|---|---|---|
| My approach | Shifting old patterns that keep getting in the way. | An unconscious shift in the way you think, feel, and act. |
| Therapy | Support for emotional challenges, difficult experiences, or mental health concerns. Therapy may include talking through your issue, gaining an outside perspective, or learning symptom management and coping strategies. | Support navigating a stressful life event, help managing an ongoing issue, or space to talk through and analyze what you’re experiencing. |
| Coaching | Clarifying goals, sharing relevant expertise, making a plan, and following through. | Practical steps toward a goal, guidance from someone with relevant expertise, and accountability along the way. |
A note about this article
I’m not a therapist. This comparison is for general purposes only and is not a substitute for the advice of a qualified health care practitioner. This article offers my current perspective on how the work I do with clients may differ from therapy and coaching. These distinctions may not apply in every case. These approaches can sometimes overlap. If you’re unsure what kind of support is appropriate for you, consult a qualified professional.